I am sure you will find one that is more suitable to your liking The article just tells the truth, so your issue is not with me, it's with the truth, and the nerve it strikes in you.
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You're not the Blog Police. Funny how are constantly using your opinion and "the truth" interchangeably, like everything that Need a ride to palmsprings believe must be the truth because you said it.
Not sure if you're noticing that you're even doing it.
Have an opinion--perfectly fine, but please expect other people to disagree with your opinion if you're going to put it out there, and you do not have to attack all of them for doing so. You gave them the right when you decided to put your opinion on a website and then call it "the truth," and "Science. Ever consider that if your article was written more maturely and diplomatically, even though it's still your opinion, maybe so many different people wouldn't have so many different views about what you said, and if you want to call it science, site more sources and studies.
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That's what maturely written pieces of work do--your piece however, did not do that, so do not be upset because you evoked these emotions in others by a poorly written and offensive to some article. Maturity is a value judgment, and culturally based. This is my blog.
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Combative, again, subjective opinion. It is not society. Thank you, and he's arrogant, immature, and combative to boot--which makes him that much less credible in my opinion.
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If you need to feel superior by emasculating a man, then congrats on a life full of. How hard is it to give in a little? It would have been more useful had it actually shared something other than a subjective value judgement. I can't wait to read "Seven deadly mistakes lonely men make". According to Billi Gordon, not having success in the dating arena will be deadly, you will die. It is very important that women are successful in dating, pleasing men and playing a strange game of cat and mouse.
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I have no judgement, because it will not change my life. What I said, were some of the things that women commonly do that turn men off according to nearly every man I've spoken to. What is really telling is that you presume that pleasing a man means a woman has to sacrifice. Nobody wants to be with a sacrificial lamb. This leap of presumption that you take says much more about what you feel about yourself than it does about what I think women What s a lonely woman have to do to get off or should not.
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Women overly compensate for having been reminded to being sex objects by abandoning the basics of their sexuality. Yes, a lot of women can change a tire, but if makes your man feel good to do it, then let.
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Funny cause Roseanne Barr favorited my tweet of this post. And I would have heard about it. You do not love your wife as you are cheating on.
Your advice about how to have a good marriage when your own is a lie is therefore laughable. I am happy that you took no exception to article While I personally, would tend to agree with you that if a person is cheating on his or her wife there are issues, the flip side of that is, some marriages allow for.
If his wife is fine with it, then it is not cheating. Not for anyone to judge but the two people in that marriage He just said he had affairs. To some people that is fine, in which case if he and his spouse are in that group, then he's not cheating.
Anyway, have a splendid day. Conclusion: there are FAR too many people out there, both men and women, who have major issues with their own sex and the opposite sex, and who most definitely have NO idea what the word "feminist" actually means.
Thank you so much taking time to point this. I knew this would anger those who believe that because they are females and they are angry that makes this feminist. However, I am scientist, and the stuff I pointed out was Norwegian datings in aberdeen cruise dec 411 phone sex local golfo aranci scientifically based stuff.
Unfortunately, some people believe "It is real because I feel it. I guess now I have go and write the male response Thanks again!
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I can't even take most of it seriously and came here with higher expectations But I have a question. If you do not like my delivery, or the points I make, why do you continue reading the stuff I What s a lonely woman have to do to get off There are many writers on Psychology Today, with various styles.
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My disappointment at the abysmal level of maturity of too many PT authors has gotten so bad that I have for now actually stopped reading PT altogether - except for Dr Gordon's blog, which I have on email alert. Dr Gordon, by the way, deleted a bunch of comments which attacked women on another article of his, and very strongly warned people who would make them to stay away from this blog.
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